We literally
sit around in a circle in order for everyone to clearly see everyone
else. I create a circle of candles and light them one by one to
focus everyone on the center of the circle. That which is at the
center is referred to as "the beauty" and provides a place
to focus our thoughts and remember why we are here; to share and
think together. You see, "conversation is the natural way humans
think together" - M.Wheatley.
This conversation
is not like any other that most people have had. As such, there
are some general guidelines which facilitate its movement. In this
circle of conversation the questions are often more important than
the answers. Reflective thinking is the outcome. Curiosity is the
instrument. It is not about what you know, but rather, what you
want to know and what we (the circle of friends) want to know. In
this circle it is essential that we see each other as equals, if
not, we break down into dialogue and monologues.
We open the
circle with the lighting of the candles. A moment of silence or
an opening quote follows. Then we pass around a song pod (its a
metal rock which chimes as it spins - it our form of a talking stick).
One of the guidelines is that while someone has the pod in their
possession only they are allowed to speak. All others listen.
The first round
of passing the pod is to say hello and let the circle know where
you are right now in three words ( ie. open, tired, excited, nervous,
happy etc.). The next round is to throw out to the group - what
would you like to know or explore today. During both of these passes
there is no cross talk (no responding to, critiquing, nor direct
inquiry of another member of the circle).
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